Day 2/44: The Law of Self-Worth : 44 Days of Self-Love
Welcome to the 44 Days of Self-Love
This is Day 2 of 44 Days of Self-Love — a transformative journey inspired by the book, 44 Laws of Self-Love by Selophy.
For the next 44 days, we’re exploring one law of self-love each day — not just as an idea to read about, but as a practice to live. This journey is about creating a deeper, more compassionate relationship with yourself, one that will change the way you show up in your own life.
Today’s Law - The Law of Self-Worth
There comes a point in life when you realise you’ve been giving away little pieces of yourself without even noticing.
Saying yes when you wanted to say no.
Shrinking your opinions to avoid rocking the boat.
Staying in spaces that didn’t value you, hoping they’d change their mind.
The Law of Self-Worth is the gentle but firm reminder that your value is not up for debate.
Your worth isn’t something you earn through achievements, relationships, or the approval of others.
It isn’t conditional on whether you’ve “got it all together.”
It isn’t dependent on how productive, attractive, or successful you are.
Your worth simply is.
It is intrinsic, unwavering, and independent of circumstances.
Why Self-Worth Changes Everything
When you embrace your self-worth, you stop settling for crumbs in your career, your relationships, and your daily life. You start making choices that feel like they honour you — not just keep the peace or meet someone else’s expectations.
It’s not about arrogance or feeling “better than.” It’s about carrying yourself with the quiet confidence of someone who knows they are deserving of:
Love
Respect
Happiness
…simply because they exist.
Living by the Law of Self-Worth
Living by this law doesn’t mean you never have moments of doubt — we’re human.
It means you have a baseline knowing:
Even on my worst days, I am still worthy.
This knowing shapes how you speak to yourself, the boundaries you set, and the way you let others treat you.
Reflection for Today
Where in your life are you accepting less than you deserve — and what would it look like to change that?
What the 44 Days of Self-Love Is About
44 Days of Self-Love is a daily journey inspired by the book, 44 Laws of Self-Love by Selophy.
Each day, we explore one law to help you:
Reconnect with who you are
Heal the parts of you that have been hurting
Grow into the life you deserve
By the end of these 44 days, my hope is that you’ll not only understand self-love — you’ll be living it.
📖 You can dive deeper into all 44 laws in the book 44 Laws of Self-Love
