Day 35/44: The Law of Abundance — 44 Days of Self-Love
Welcome to the 44 Days of Self-Love
This is Day 35 of 44 Days of Self-Love — a transformative journey inspired by the book, 44 Laws of Self-Love by Selophy.
For the next 44 days, we’re exploring one law of self-love each day — not just as an idea to read about, but as a practice to live. This journey is about creating a deeper, more compassionate relationship with yourself, one that will change the way you show up in your own life.
Today’s Law – The Law of Abundance
Shifting from Scarcity to Gratitude
The Law of Abundance teaches that true wealth begins in the mind.
Abundance isn’t measured by what you have — it’s felt in how you see. It’s the mindset that says, “There’s enough for me, and there’s enough for everyone else too.”
When you focus on what’s missing, you live in lack. When you focus on what’s present, you live in overflow.
Abundance starts with gratitude.
Why Abundance Expands Self-Love
Self-love and scarcity can’t coexist.
When you believe life is abundant, you no longer compete, chase, or cling. You move from fear into flow. Gratitude turns what you have into enough, and generosity turns enough into more.
Abundance isn’t about possessions; it’s about perspective — a deep trust that life supports you, even when it’s uncertain.
When you live abundantly, you stop surviving and start thriving.
How to Practice the Law of Abundance
Start and End with Gratitude
Each day, name three things you already have that make your life rich.Give Without Expectation
Time, kindness, attention — abundance multiplies when shared.Reframe Limiting Beliefs
Replace “There’s not enough” with “There’s always a way.”Celebrate Others’ Wins
Their success doesn’t take from yours. It proves what’s possible.
Reflection in Action
Abundance is a mirror — what you believe, you attract.
The more you appreciate, the more life gives you to appreciate. The moment you begin to see your life as full, it begins to overflow.
Reflection Question for You
What’s one area of your life where you’ve been focusing on lack — and what’s something you can be grateful for instead?
FAQs / TLDR :
Is abundance only about money?
No. Abundance is a state of mind that applies to love, time, creativity, and opportunity.
How do I feel abundant when life feels hard?
Start small. Gratitude for even the simplest things rewires your perception of “enough.”
Can I still want more and be grateful?
Absolutely. Gratitude anchors you; desire expands you. Both can coexist beautifully.
What the 44 Days of Self-Love Is About
44 Days of Self-Love is more than a series — it’s a daily invitation to slow down, listen inward, and reconnect with the person you’re becoming.
Each day, we explore one law from the 44 Laws of Self-Love by Selophy, with the hope that by the end, you won’t just understand self-love better — you’ll be living it in ways that feel real, personal, and lasting.

